What is Life?

A Reflection on Purpose, Realities, and Making an Impact

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Recently,

Georgia Patrick

shared a comment that deeply resonated with me: “Ron, this is one of your best descriptions of what you experienced. It flows well into the description of your consulting service. Because you are so deep and intense, I would love to know if your writing is pulling toward you the exceptional adults you could best serve.”

Her words lingered in my mind, touching the core of both my journey and my work. They reminded me of the central question I’ve grappled with for years: What’s the purpose of life? And, more personally, What’s the purpose of my life?

To even attempt to answer these, I had to confront a deeper, more daunting question: What is life? The stark truth I’ve come to accept is that this question will never be fully answered. And yet—here’s the paradox—it is in that unanswerable mystery that the purpose of life may reside. To live fully, to lean into uncertainty, and to embrace the unfolding unknown—that, perhaps, is the meaning of life itself.

This realization led me to see that we exist in two intertwined realities: the material and the non-material. The material world is everything tangible—work, relationships, goals. The non-material world is where our emotions, intuition, and deeper sense of existence reside. When we grasp this duality, something shifts. Suddenly, everything makes sense: every decision, every feeling, every act of faith, love, or courage falls into place.

And yet, this clarity comes at a cost. When I truly embraced this insight, it hit me with what I can only describe as a visceral sense of death and birth at the same time. One chapter ends as another begins—an endless cycle of transformation. The real challenge? Accepting that the ultimate answer will never come. But that’s okay. Because life is never “done.” It’s always in motion.

At 60, when many are thinking about retirement, I find myself on a very different path. I feel a burning desire to make an impact with this knowledge—whether as a coach, a writer, a friend, or a CEO. My goal is simple but profound: to help others connect with their own sense of clarity and purpose.

To Georgia’s question—Is your writing pulling toward you the exceptional adults you could best serve?—I believe the answer is yes. Those who resonate with my stories often see themselves in my reflections—whether it’s about navigating giftedness, embracing authenticity, or confronting the complexities of leadership. My writing is more than words. It’s a space where people can explore their own depths and align their inner worlds with their outer realities.

Perhaps this is what life is all about: a continuous process of discovery, connection, and creation. As I write and share, I find my own journey intertwined with those I aim to serve.

So, let me end with a question for you: How are you embracing your life’s mysteries? And, do you see ways I could refine my message to serve this audience even better?

Short note

I’d like to take a moment to introduce you to my one-to-one coaching. Consciousness and meaningful conversations are at the heart of my life’s work, and guiding others on their journey is a true passion of mine. In these sessions, I show up as your brother, coach, or mentor, creating a space for profound transformation and spiritual alignment. It’s been an incredible gift for me personally, and I’ve witnessed the transformative impact it has on those I support.

If my articles and stories resonate with you and inspire your growth, I invite you to book a one-to-one session with me directly at Calendly. While deep transformation takes time, there’s nothing quite like the breakthroughs and clarity these conversations bring. It would be an honor and a pleasure to support you on your journey. I'm looking forward to see you in the call.