The Hidden Power of Being Gifted
Here's what worked for me (and could work for you, too).
In this article, I promise to reveal the untold truths about living with giftedness—how it shaped my life, my career, and my relationships. I’ll share the powerful lessons I’ve learned from my own journey of intensity and liberation, and how you can apply these insights to find balance and authenticity in your own life. You’ll gain a deeper understanding of giftedness, not as a gift, but as a complex, often misunderstood experience that can drive you to extraordinary heights—or leave you feeling unfulfilled.
This article isn’t just a reflection; it’s a guide based on years of lived experience and self-discovery. By paying for this, you’re investing in a real, actionable approach to embracing your own gifts, overcoming the challenges they bring, and learning how to create lasting personal and professional transformation.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or misunderstood, this article offers clarity—and most importantly, hope that you’re not alone.
Introduction: A Hidden Force Within Me
Discovering Giftedness Late in Life
I didn’t recognise my giftedness until I was 53, so I never understood why I experienced life with such intensity. It wasn’t chaos, but an unrelenting force that drove me—often surprising even myself—to make bold, seemingly impulsive choices, like quitting jobs without warning. This intensity came from somewhere deep within, and though it was at times overwhelming, it was also liberating, propelling me forward in my career and pushing me to new levels.
Yet, while this drive was powerful, it wasn’t always fulfilling. My path was anything but smooth, marked by a constant push-pull between ambition and a sense of something missing. It shaped me into who I am today-living authentically, resiliently, and deeply connected to who I truly am, but it came with its share of challenges. Perhaps the most remarkable thing is that, despite the unpredictability and intensity of this journey, my relationship with my wife has endured for nearly 40 years. Isn’t that unusual in this context?
Isn’t that unusual in this context?
In this article, I’ll share how I’ve navigated this journey of self-discovery and balance, embracing the gifts—and challenges—that come with being gifted. Maybe it works for you too.
The Struggles of Being Gifted
When Power Feels Like a Burden
Giftedness hasn’t always meant smooth success for me. While it drove my career forward, it also left me with an ongoing sense of dissatisfaction—a persistent gap between my drive to achieve and a nagging emptiness that often followed. For all its potential, giftedness can sometimes feel isolating and unfulfilling.